Reflections: Who has strengthened you?

The book of Acts tells us much about how to share the gospel—building cross-cultural relationships, encouraging new believers, relying on the Holy Spirit for guidance, and remaining faithful even if hardships come. After studying Acts with Global University last month, I’m enjoying even more time in it with the Proverbs 31 Ministries community.

Acts 14 details how Barnabas and Paul—formerly Saul, himself a persecutor of Christians—joined the teaching team in Syrian Antioch, and were then directed by the Holy Spirit to go out and make even more disciples. After a preaching and church-planting tour of several cities in the region of Pisidia, v. 21-22 says they “returned to Lystra, Iconium and Pisidian Antioch, strengthening the souls of the disciples and encouraging them to continue in the faith.” 

On that missionary trip, they experienced opposition at almost every stop. Yet, there were also people in each town who became believers, and churches were planted. In spite of being opposed by the religious establishment and pagan culture, run out of town, and even beaten, Barnabas and Paul dared to stop back by on their return trip in order to encourage those churches. 

That realization brought me to reflect on the many people who have strengthened me over the years. My parents demonstrated strong faith in spite of their own hardships and physical challenges. Although I had typical teenager issues with their rules and wish I had paid better attention to their advice as a young adult, they were always there for me, urging me to make Bible-based decisions and to stay in Christian community. 

Another huge source of encouragement in my Christian walk has been missionaries, and their example in the locations where they serve. One of my favorite childhood memories is when Jerry and Maxine Falley, missionaries to Nigeria, visited our church during visits home. Their slideshows of excited children learning Bible stories helped me see that the love of Jesus was something worth the cost, as families walked miles to get to the meetings. I also enjoyed “Missions Day” at our denomination’s annual camp meeting. Now almost 90, Brother Falley still prays for those converts as Nigerian Christians suffer persecution, and encourages younger missionaries serving in tough areas. 

Local churches have strengthened me, as well. Yes, it’s possible to have bad church experiences—we’ve had a few. But there are also plenty of great churches, including the one we attend in Branson, with solid Bible teaching and Christian fellowship. I know that if I need prayer, our life group members are just a quick text message away and will pray. Other good friends from over the years have joined me in prayer many times, including the past two years praying for our grandson, Gil, during his preemie journey. 

These scriptures and memories have also been a reminder to follow up with people I’ve talked with about the Gospel or prayed with during their own hard time. As I reflect on who has strengthened me, I want to be willing and make time in my schedule to strengthen others.